Alanis mailing list code

You're referring to the Alanis Morissette mailing list code!

The code you're looking for is likely the "You Oughta Know" lyrics, which have become a popular meme and cultural reference. Here's the relevant section:

"Thanks to you, I'm so alone Thanks to you, I learned to live alone Thanks to you, I found my own strength Thanks to you, I found my own voice"

These lyrics are often used to express frustration, anger, or disappointment, and have become a sort of inside joke or meme.